Top 5 Wedding Ring Gemstones
Nov 22, 2025
by Suzanne Sachs • 5 min read
THE BASICS ---
Diamonds are the undisputed top choice for wedding ring gemstones, but what if diamonds just aren’t your gem jam? There are other stunning gemstones to choose from that can be distinctive and gorgeous options for your perfect wedding ring.
WHAT YOU NEED TO KNOW---
In this guide, we will explain the following:
- Why Choose Alternative Wedding Ring Gemstones?
- Top Non-Diamond Gemstones for Wedding Rings
- Garnet
- Emerald
- Sapphire
- Aquamarine
- Opal
- Other Gemstone Options
- Choosing a Different Wedding Ring Gemstone
Why Choose Alternative Wedding Ring Gemstones?
Opting NOT to have diamonds in one’s wedding ring is a very personal decision. Perhaps you prefer a more colorful design, or you want your wedding ring to be unique. Colored gems will certainly be eye-catching and can often be more affordable than diamonds, making them a great choice for couples on a budget.
It is important to note which alternative gemstones will be durable for daily wear and will match your personal style for years to come. Coordinating your wedding ring with other signature pieces you wear frequently can be another reason for choosing gemstones rather than diamonds.
The symbolism of colored gems can add even more layers of meaning to the wedding ring. Perhaps birthstones will represent the couple and their shared commitment, or may include children or other important family members. Certain gemstones can also symbolize significant dates in the couple’s relationship, showcasing their shared history in the wedding ring.
Top Non-Diamond Gemstones for Wedding Rings
There are many different gemstones that can be incorporated into a wedding ring design. While the exact stones chosen will be a personal decision, the most popular wedding ring gemstones include:
1. Garnet
A rich alternative to the more expensive (though still popular!) ruby, garnet’s deep tones are popular in many vintage wedding ring designs. As the January birthstone, garnet can have great significance for a couple, and as a 7 on the Mohs scale of hardness, it can easily be worn every day.
2. Emerald
This stunning precious gem has rich green tones that symbolize fertility and growth, perfect for a couple who may start a family. Emerald is also the May birthstone, ideal for a spring wedding, and has outstanding clarity for an eye-catching shape. As a 7.5-8 hardness, emeralds are easy to wear daily.
3. Sapphire
The rich blue of classic sapphires is regal and distinctive, while alternative colors such as pink, green, orange, and yellow offer even more variety. Sapphires are peaceful and calming, and as the September birthstone, can be very meaningful for fall weddings. With a 9 on the Mohs scale, sapphires are ideal for daily wear.
4. Aquamarine
The refreshing light sea-blue and sea-green tones of aquamarine are a beautiful option for wedding rings, and the clarity of the stones is outstanding for an eye-catching and distinctive ring. This March birthstone has a hardness of 7.5-8, making it easy to wear aquamarines for many happy anniversaries.
5. Opal
Though softer than most wedding ring gemstones at just 5.5-6 on the Mohs scale, the October birthstone opal is nonetheless popular for its lustrous white hues with rainbow sparkles. Especially popular in vintage designs, opal is a beautiful stone that symbolizes purity, hope, and truth, all excellent marriage characteristics.
Other Gemstone Options
While these five gemstones are some of the most popular non-diamond gems used in wedding bands, they certainly aren’t the only options. Just as your wedding and
marriage is a unique and special union, your ring can be just as unique with any gems and designs you wish.
Choosing a Different Wedding Ring Gemstone
Regardless of what gemstone catches your eye for a wedding ring, study the gem carefully so you are fully aware of the care it may need and what characteristics indicate the best quality. This will help ensure you find a suitable piece for this very important piece of jewelry.
Be aware that because diamonds are so traditional for wedding rings, you may be subject to some scrutiny and misunderstandings if your ring has alternative stones. This should not dissuade you, however, but only be prepared to share the significance and symbolism of your ring with others if they are curious.
Ultimately, choose the wedding ring gemstones that make you happy, stones you can love, honor, and cherish for many years to come.
Suzanne Sachs
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